Tuesday, 15 October 2024

No zazen on Monday 21 October

 Just a quick note to say that I'll be away on sesshin at Fell End this coming week, so no zazen on Monday 21st. We'll meet again as per usual the following Monday, 28th.

Photo of Fell End retreat centre
Fell End (left) near Penrith


Monday, 16 September 2024

Compassion

Haven't posted anything in a while, apologies! Came across this quote from Roshi Joan Halifax that I thought might resonate with folk. It's from her 1997 book Being With Dying: Cultivating Compassion and Fearlessness in the Presence of Death

Compassion coupled with strength sustains our work with sickness, loss, and all the forms of suffering encountered in the experience of dying. Compassion is not an idealized state. It is the profound realization that we are not separate from one another, and it requires the ability to feel another’s suffering. Like loving-kindness, it is fundamentally interactive and ultimately has no subject and no object. Loving-kindness and compassion are the perfume of interconnectedness, the fragrance of nonduality.


 

Monday, 5 August 2024

Feature about Keizan Roshi

 Just a quick note to share a link to a feature article about our founder, Keizan Roshi, from the Liverpool Echo, which glories in the title of, "I co-founded one of Liverpool's most missed venues and now I'm a Zen Master." Hope you find it interesting...!

https://www.liverpoolecho.co.uk/news/real-lives/co-founded-one-liverpools-most-29674119



Sunday, 7 July 2024

Life and Death

As my father was dying, the phrase, "Life and death are one," repeatedly arose in my thoughts. One hears these sorts of things when reading around Zen, but to consider this when sitting next to the corpse of a loved one brings it into sharp relief. At that moment, looking at his face, I thought it over and over again like a mantra. It made an intuitive sense to me that I've struggled to explain to myself in the ten days since then.

In the Shobogenzo is a fascicle called "Shoji" or "Life and death". It's short, but here's an excerpt:

To understand that we move from birth to death is a mistake. Birth is a state at one moment; it already has a past and will have a future. For this reason, it is said in the Buddha-Dharma that appearance is just non-appearance. Extinction also is a state at one moment; it too has a past and a future. This is why it is said that disappearance is just non-disappearance. In the time called life, there is nothing besides life. In the time called death, there is nothing besides death. Thus, when life comes it is just life, and when death comes it is just death; do not say, confronting them, that you will serve them, and do not wish for them. 

This life-and-death is just the sacred life of buddha... There is a very easy way to become buddha. Not committing wrongs; being without attachment to life-and-death; showing deep compassion for all living beings, venerating those above and pitying those below; being free of the mind that dislikes the ten thousand things and free of the mind that desires them; the mind being without thought and without grief: this is called buddha. Look for nothing else. (Trans. Nishijima & Cross)

When dying comes, it is just dying, and does not belong to the realm of living. Dying is complete on its own. To be non-attached is not to be empty of grief or other emotions; when grief comes, it is just grief. And when we sit round the table and tell silly stories about dad's life, laughter comes and it is just laughter. We have thrown ourselves into these moments. 

I miss you, dad. 



Monday, 1 July 2024

Zendo closure extended by one week

 Hi all - sadly my father died last week. We've arranged for his memorial to be held in Johannesburg next week, so I'm extending my trip here for a bit. 

I'm afraid we won't be meeting on 8th July as promised, the next zazen will be held on Monday 15th July.

Announcement

Sunday, 16 June 2024

No zazen on 24 June or 1 July

 Hi all

Just a quick note about our regular Monday zazen. This upcoming Monday (June 17th), we will meet as usual at 7.30pm.

However, due to a family situation that requires my presence out of the country, I will be unable to host the group for the following two Mondays (June 24th and July 1st). During this time, we will unfortunately need to take a short break.

Sorry for stepping away on such short notice... I appreciate your understanding. We will resume our weekly zazen on Monday, July 8th. I look forward to sitting with you all again soon.

I wish you all a peaceful couple of weeks!

All the best,  

Alasdair

Tuesday, 30 April 2024

What is the purpose of Zen monks wearing robes?

This was posted a couple of weeks ago on the main StoneWater Zen blog, so now that it's been up there for a bit I thought I'd post it here too.

The title of this is a question I was asked online about a year ago, and I’ve just stumbled across my answer to it. We touch on the idea of ritual, ceremony and ‘the form’ from time to time in Northampton, especially when people come to their first sit with a service! Usually, I answer in various ways depending on the context and the person asking. On this occasion, not knowing the questioner, this is how I responded:

My answer is from the viewpoint of a Western Zen priest/monk who lives a lay life and yet still wears robes on meditation retreats (sesshin) and for a few other meditation sessions during the year (usually when also conducting service). My reasons for wearing my robe are complex and I don’t claim to have thought them out fully, but for what it’s worth…

  1. Because it’s expected of me. I put this first just to get it out of the way – it’s probably the least important, but that being said, if I pitch up to a meditation period on retreat without wearing my robes, I’d be asked to explain why (I might even have a good reason!). All that said, there’s a remarkable freedom in the restrictions of the monastic regime we maintain during sesshin, as contradictory as that might sound. A freedom from having to choose what to do, what to wear, what to say, what to eat… we voluntarily submit to such a strict regime and find ourselves frequently surprised by how free we feel from the tyranny of everyday decisions!
  2. Tradition. I practice Zen in a lineage that, like most Zen groups, traces our ‘bloodline’ back through generations of teachers all the way to the Buddha (and yes, I’m fully aware that some of this is mythological, some hagiographical, and some outright lies for political purposes in ancient China!). Part of this is that we’ve been handed down this practice in a particular form - we sit in a certain way, we chant certain texts, we conduct ourselves in the meditation hall in a certain way… and we dress in a certain way. Again, this ‘mere tradition’ is not terribly important to me, but expands into…
  3. Gratitude. I keep the traditions, including wearing the robes, mainly as an expression of my ongoing gratitude to teachers and my dharma ancestors. My robes, for me, are a material expression of that gratitude, and a determination to continue the endless work to fulfil our vows, to end suffering and to save all sentient beings. I cannot express how important this aspect of robe wearing is for me.
  4. Other people’s projections. We wear the robes not just for ourselves but also for other people. Putting on the robe for the first time during my tokudo ceremony was very moving: it was an outward expression of my commitment to service to the sangha - both in the local and universal sense. When I wear the robes, I represent not myself but something else, and ideal I suppose, and it’s very interesting to observe others’ responses to this. I’ve seen responses from surprised (“What the f*** is that?” – inmate during prison visit!) to respect (being called ‘father’ by a well-meaning Catholic lady at a public interfaith event was memorable) to outright veneration. I was surprised and initially very uncomfortable when visiting a Thai patient in a mental health hospital who bowed down and touched her head to my feet – until I realised it was nothing to do with me but the robes and what they meant to her, even if not the saffron robes she was probably used to seeing. On a more prosaic level, wearing the robes within our own sangha marks one out as, I hope, someone who’s been in the practice for a while and who can provide support and spiritual friendship.
  5. As part of my practice. My jukai preceptor has often talked about the robes as teaching us – physically wearing them, all those layers and ridiculously long sleeves etc, with the kesa arranged just so over the top, is demanding! You can’t wander about mindlessly in robes like you can in a t-shirt and trackie bottoms. You can’t even hang your hands down by your side, but must be continually in shasshu, hands clasped in front of you, to keep your kesa and koromo sleeves off the ground. Even walking through a door mindlessly can be a hazard – the number of times my sleeve has caught in a doorhandle as I’ve passed through and spun me around…! Especially in the Zendo, making sure your kesa doesn’t touch the ground, trying to move quietly and nobly through this special space while managing metres and metres of material… it’s fascinating how much I’ve learned about the way I normally move because of wearing the robes.

Bound to be others… think I’ve probably bored you enough by now. But I hope that I’ve given you the impression that wearing the robes is a psychologically rich and complex matter, and not something that one enters into lightly.